))So there you are, just got done spending time with your “friend” and slowly but surely it hits you! bam! You think you like her! Then all of a sudden a billion questions comes up to your mind like, “does she feel the same way about me?” , “does she even see me the way I see her?” “Will I ever be more than a friend to her?” After you go through all those questions for a couple days one question lingers in your mind… “Is the risk worth the benefit?”
Ohhhh. Just when you thought that you mustered up every ounce of confidence to ask her out you are all of a sudden forced to take a couple steps back. Now you feel like you are stuck and things just start to feel awkward every time you are around her. This is when you need to realize that its okay to take this risk. Let me tell you why.
Even if she doesn’t feel the same way as you do. A good friend will still treat/see you the same after all the emotion in your fragile little broken heart dies down lol. But seriously though, A decent friend will recognize that the friendship you once had is not worth losing just because one of you fell for the other. These type of things are inevitable. We are only humans.
So, next time you get that hesitant feeling. Just go for it man, It’s so much better to feel the short pain of rejection than to forever regret not taking the risk.
